What Makes You A Bad Parent?

Why do parents become bad for their children?

By Intimate Viewpoint

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Parents are like an angel for their children until they grow up. Every step and every moment of their parents are liked by them before the age of 15. 

Then what happened with them when they become 14/15? 

Why do the parents become bad for them?

Actually, before the age of 14, their brain does not grow completely, so they are not able to think about right and wrong. At that time, every parent is like God for every child. They like to obey their every saying. They respect and consider every decision of their parents. But as they grow up, their ways of thinking get changed. They get in contact with different kinds of people and different kinds of environments. Then they get influenced by some of them and start liking their way. Then after that, the way of their parents becomes seeming wrong to them.

What to do if such type conditions arise?

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If you find your children avoiding you or disobeying you, never overreact, rather take it lightly. However, It's become difficult to be normal if children avoid their parents because it becomes so painful. But, if you take it lightly, and become silent over their behavior, they would realize their mistake and would become normal. 

Actually, at the age of fourteen/fifteen or above, children have a common psychological problem. In this age period, children get angry over little matter. They think that they are always right and the elders are wrong. They also think that they have more knowledge than the elders. Such kinds of thoughts are very common in teens.

How to become good parents for their children?

It is not so, that you too become wrong to prove yourself as a good parent in front of your children.

In such conditions, you have to analyze the situation deeply and have to know right and wrong properly. Whenever such kinds of situations occur in life when you become wrong in the eyes of your children. It is not so that truly you are wrong. But sometimes they are wrong too.

And sometimes, the situation becomes just the opposite. Then they are right, and you are wrong.

How to know that who is wrong and who is right?

As being a parent, it is our duty to handle such situations with delicacy. So first of all, we have to leave our ago and have to befriend our children.

If finds that you are right then don't be hasty to make it prove, rather give time to prove it automatically. And if finds you wrong and they are right, then accept your fault quickly.

In this age period, children become very sentimental and overconfident. They start considering geniuses themselves if they do any one thing right. Therefore, handling this period of children becomes too much tough. 

Don't forget that teenagers always search for a true friend rather than a parent. So, try to become a friend of your children.