Girls should be made self-dependent before marriage, Why?

Girls should be made self-dependent before marriage, why? 

By Intimate Viewpoint

Click Here

Why boys are more adorable than Girls?

In India, the marriage of girls is a big responsibility for parents. When there is a girl baby born, the concern occurs in parents life from that day. In a middle-class family, it almost becomes a sad moment when there is a girl baby born in a family. Because there is a big amount for dowry they have to arrange for a girl's marriage. 

And just opposite to that about born of a boy baby. Although, now the situation has changed. Education has changed the way of thinking of many people. Yet in many states of India have been following the same culture since the olden times.

The birth of a baby boy child is a matter of joy. There is a big enthusiasm is seen among the family members for celebrating the birthday of a boy child. Because when a boy child becomes younger, and get married, he brings a lot of assets, a big amount of money as a dowry.

For this special day, a boy is treated like a prince. A big amount is spent on his education and on making his career. 

What is the prominent responsibility of the parents of a girl?

In this Era, the way of thinking of parents has changed. They started giving equal importance to both girls and boys. Now girls become like a princess for each family in cities and in most of the village also. 

The parents of a girl child invest more money for their education, and for their every comfort.

The parents send their girls to a good school. They spend money on their extra activities also. They try to build their career. But marriage is the last destination for both boys and girls. So, the parents of a girl become more concerned. Because after marriage, they have to go to their in-law's house.

The parents spend a big amount on girl's marriage so that they live with more Comfort in their in-law's house.

Among all the responsibilities, they forget the most prominent responsibility to play, which is to make their girls self-dependent.

Why should the girls be self-dependent?

These days, girls become more adorable than before. They are treated like a princess by their parents. So the parents want their girls to get the same love and care and concern in their in-law's house. For that, they spend a lot of money on their marriage. They give maximum assets for living with comfort in their own house. They give a big amount of money as a dowry. But these all become useless.

Most of the girls cannot live peacefully. They have to be dependent on their spouses for fulfilling even their small needs. Their freedom was almost snatched away. They can't do anything by their own wish. For these reasons, it is very important for girls to be self-dependent before marriage so that they do have not to spread their hands before anyone for fulfilling their needs. 

Therefore, it is a big responsibility for the parents of a girl to make them self-dependent first. 

And even after marriage, it should not be acceptable to leave their jobs after marriage in any condition.

So it is a humble request for all parents of the girls that make them self-dependent first then think for their marriage.