Expressing dissatisfaction always becomes wrong, Why?

Expressing dissatisfaction always becomes wrong, why?

By Intimate Viewpoint

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Humans are called social animals. They like to live in a society and in a family too. They can't live alone. They can't leave alone in a jungle or in an isolated area.

Why they can't live alone? 

Why do they always need a family or a companion?

This is because, they need to talk to someone, they need to express themselves to someone, they need to express their pain, their grief, their problems, their dissatisfaction to someone. 

But in most of the family, the situation becomes worse when someone expresses his/her problems, his/her wishes, and dissatisfaction.

If the problems will not be shared, how would the solutions come out? 

In such conditions, the situations will be out of control and the bonding of the relationship will go loose.

Why tolerance is the only way to keep everything good?

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Tolerance is known as the power of human beings. Because it never lets situations go messy. Everything is controlled by tolerating. A family seems good and happy when the women of the family tolerate everything and keep the environment peaceful. But why should a woman tolerate everything for keeping a family environment peaceful? Why can't a man do such things?

In a family, especially women have the responsibility to keep everything normal. And they play such responsibilities by sacrificing many things. They tolerate many unwanted happenings, they stay silent on many wrong things.

Although, some of my readers, may disagree with me. Because a few cases are also can be seen where men are exploited by many women. But you would have to agree that such cases can be seen mostly about women.

In a middle-class family, women are considered housekeepers. They look after the family and children. But they have no right to raise their voice in any condition.

In India, in a middle-class family, all kinds of households a woman does, and a man's duty is to fulfill all kinds of necessities. But if anyhow a man becomes a failure to fulfill anything, then it is considered his compulsion. But if a woman anyhow becomes unable to do any work, it is said, her laziness.

The discrimination between men and women is a trend of our society 

Such kinds of partiality are very common in our society. Now women got habituated to such things. Even though the goodness of education spread everywhere yet something still is unchanged. In a family, if the men and women are both job holders and earn money for the family yet the responsibility of children is played only by the women. 

After returning home, cooking food is a permanent job for the women. A woman plays all kinds of roles in a family but gets back nothing except pain and sorrows.