Adjustment is the basis of happiness

Adjustment is the basis of happiness

By Intimate Viewpoint

Adjustment is the basis of happiness. I know you won't agree with me because you think, no one can be happy with adjustment. But before thinking so, we would have to think that a man or a woman does not live alone. We all need people around us as our companions, and the people are our relatives, friends, parents, children, and spouses.

We live with them with many kinds of adjustments. We all have to do adjustments sometimes and somewhere.

We all want to live according to our desire, but it rarely becomes possible. Because in most cases, we have to do adjust to living with someone else.

Adjustment with desires inside a family

There are many kinds of adjustments a man has to do. The adjustment with desires is one of them, and it is very common inside a family.

Inside a family, no one can fulfill his all wishes. If there is a deep bond between the members, yet it is difficult to fulfill one's wishes. 

If any member does so, then he will become an issue of dissatisfaction for other members.

Zero adjusting nature of the people in the modern era 

India is very popular for its adjusting nature. Because the people of India have a nature of adjustment with everything. In most families, especially in a middle-class family of India, it is seen very often, that the people become ready to do adjust to any condition. People live peacefully with many kinds of adjustments, inside a family.

All members do sacrifice their desires for each other. But in the modern era, the adjusting nature seems to be reducing from the people, and so the bonding also reducing from the relationships. 

They take the decision to be separate from one another very quickly and easily. Because they are not read ready to do adjust to their desires and conditions. 

Most of the people especially the young generation of this era are not ready to live with adjustment. Therefore, the situations of divorce, separation, etc. arise today very often.

Adjustment is not just the condition of life

Although many people think the adjustment is a condition of life, I think that it is not just the condition rather a part of our life. Because everywhere it chases us, in an office, in a public place, in public transport, with friends, with a spouse, with parents, with relatives. If anyone does not accept to do adjust of any kind then he has to live alone. No people would want to live with such men who do have not an adjusting quality.

An adjusting natured man is really a social man 

The people who have an adjusting nature can be fit anywhere and with anyone.

All people like such kinds of men, because such people believe in providing comfort to others rather not in taking comfort from others.

Such kinds of people are not selfish, they do adjust for others' comfort. We can see both types of people around us. Now you think for a while that who do you like most, the selfish people or the people who are not selfish but they adjust themselves for others' comfort.