Why do parents not understand their children?

Why do parents not understand their children? 

By Intimate Viewpoint 

In one of my previous articles, I have mentioned the relationship between parents and children, and I have mentioned also that how do children skip from playing their duties in a complicated and difficult situation with their parents.

But, not only children are always wrong, but sometimes even parents are also wrong. They become unable to understand their children most of the time. A parent thinks that as they had survived in their lives, in the same way, their children should also live lives. It means, if they had lived a complex life, and compromised with their wishes, in the same way, their children must learn to compromise with the situations, and they should also live a simple life.

The parents should not underestimate their children

How the situation is, children learned to manage the situation after becoming an elder. Therefore, there is no need for parents to think seriously about this thing, and neither there is a need to stop the freedom of the children. 

Childhood should not be snatched from the children, and neither should be pushed towards a heavy burden. The children must be taught to play the minor responsibilities like helping elders in their work, taking care of youngers, and helping them in doing homework, etc. 

Children should be given freedom but with a little restriction

There are many kinds of freedom. Sometimes the children as well as elders also misinterpret freedom and use it in another way. They do many wrong things in the name of freedom.

So. the parents have some responsibilities, like to keep watching on their children and their activities. They should be freed but a small conversation is needed on a regular basis over their each and every work.

For their security, is not wrong to ask some questions on a regular basis. Like Where are they going?

When will they return?

To whom are they going? etc.

But such things should be maintained from the beginning not suddenly, otherwise, they will get angry. 

It becomes riskier the age of 14 to 18 

When a child is crossing the age of 14 to 18, it becomes riskier because in this duration children begin to feel themselves as a grown-up, therefore, they become angry when someone tries to forbid them for anything.

They think, perhaps, they still are taking as a child. And such things become a prestige issue, therefore, this duration of the children must be handled with more delicacy and with more carefully. A little bit of mistake may be a cause of a big problem.

Parents should always take care of their children's feelings. Actually, the children are treated as a child in several times, and their feelings do not get much importance. But actually, the feelings of the children are more delicate than that of the elders, therefore, they get hurt more than us.

The feeling of the children should be understood by their parents, by doing so, the parents can be able to win their trust, and they in this way can become a good friend of them.