Independency is more important for women

Independency is more important for women

By Intimate viewpoint

Independence is a blessing of God while dependence is a curse. Independence is important for both men and women and also for animals but it is most important for women.

Women. especially Indian middle-class women are always dependent on others for their each and every need. India's middle-class society thinks that independence is important for a man and for a boy because they have to take care of their family and have to earn money for running their family. But it is as not as important for women or girls, as it is important for men and boys.

A woman of an Indian middle-class family never gets freedom for everything. They are not allowed to go alone everywhere or to spend time late at night at a party or anywhere because they have to take care of their children and their family. Because taking care of families and children is considered as the prominent job of their life.

Independency of earning money 

Earning money is the basis of Independence because no one can be free completely, who has no source of earning money. A person is free to do anything if in his/her life if he/she earns money. And such a person does not care for anything because the main power is in his/her hand. 

Therefore in few middle-class families, women are not permitted to earn money because the members of the family think that by doing so they will become free completely and would not take care of their family and children properly. 

In such middle-class families, women are considered as a caretaker of families and children only. 

Making girls independent is a duty of a parent 

Such types of mindsets for women should be stopped and this could be possible when parents will be aware of their girls. The parents should be concerned for the future of their girls because if the future of girls will be secured then the life of women will be better.

In a middle-class family, if there any girl is born, the concern of the parent goes to the marriage of that girl. From the beginning, they start to deposit money for the marriage of that girl instead of for making her career. And afterward when the girl grows up and she is married and then the parents think that their responsibility became the end. 

When the girl goes to her husband's home after marriage, she becomes dependent on her husband completely. She has to ask her husband for her every need. Now her life has become hell. She has to learn to compromise with her wishes throughout her life. And such life is a curse for every woman. 

Marriage should not be the first priority for girls 

Although, the condition of girls becomes better than before yet such conditions of girls can be seen in many families. Still, in many families, the marriage of a girl is considered the first priority. So the girls in such families do not get proper education and proper circumstances to build their careers. If there any girl get the opportunity of studying, this is only because of getting a good and educated boy for marriage not for building her career. So, I think that parents are responsible for the bad condition of women. 

The main reason for the bad conditions of women is the unawareness of parents. Because every woman was a girl before getting married. And a girl remains under the care of her parent. And for this reason, a parent is responsible for every condition of a girl. And in this way the reason for the bad condition of a woman directly goes to her parents, therefore, the parents of a girl should be more concerned about her future. So they should do everything they can do to build their career so that their girls would be independent in the future, and they would not have to be dependent on their husbands for every need.