Advantages and disadvantages of freedom inside a family

Advantage and disadvantages of freedom inside a family

By Intimate Viewpoint

In each and every family all the members want some freedom inside the family. Freedom like eating whenever they want, rising from bed whenever they want, going where ever they want, etc, etc. That means, no certain rules regulations they want in their life and even in their family also. 

Freedom is beautiful. It gives a pleasant feeling to all, not only humans but also animals, birds, and even insects also like freedom. And there is a different meaning of freedom in different places. Sometimes, some people take out the wrong meaning of freedom and start to misuse it. Many people do many unpleasant things also in the name of freedom and disturb others.

So, in this article, I have mentioned few points of advantage and also few points of disadvantages of freedom. At first, I will mention the point of advantage.

The advantages of freedom in a family

The advantage part of freedom is that freedom makes us feel pleasant. The life of a person becomes easy and beautiful when freedom is in life. Where there is freedom in the life of a person, he becomes stress-free. In the same way, where there is freedom inside a family, the member of that family remains happy always. 

Each member gets the freedom to live life according to their wish. In such families, the stress found nowhere. Everywhere found what, that is only peace and happiness. The bond of love is found between all the members. Because of the presence of freedom, the members have no pressure of any type. So, when they returned home from anywhere, they feel pleasant and happy. They want to spend time with each other.

But, where there is the advantage of freedom in a family, there are some disadvantages also. Because everything has two sides good and bad, advantage and disadvantage.

Now, I am going to mention the disadvantage of freedom.

The disadvantages of freedom in a family

Every good thing becomes bad when it is used in the wrong way. In the sense, when it is misused. Exactly the same, when freedom is used in the wrong way and people start to do anything in the name of freedom, it starts giving an opposite result. Such opposite results are sometimes invisible. Because we can't be able to see such results but yet they are effective. They leave their relic. 

When there is no rule and routine are followed by the members of a family, the family members become lazy and sometimes irresponsible also. Because there is no pressure they feel. In such conditions, sometimes the ladies of such families come into trouble, especially in a middle-class family. 

Where there is no maid or servant in a house, all work has been doing by the women, in such families. The male members have so certain times for eating, sleeping, rising, and returning home. So, women have to remain engaged in kitchen work. They get rarely free time for entertainment.

In India, there are some traditional rules for ladies, and they have to follow such rules at any cost. In such families, ladies serve food for gents.

If any family is a joint family, and there are many members live together there. Gents come for taking meals any time, and one after another. And ladies have to serve them food according to their time. That's means, the ladies do not get freedom. Here, freedom is used in the wrong way. And the freedom of gents becomes high-handedness for ladies. Therefore, freedom should be equal for both ladies and gents. Freedom should not be fun for one and punishment for one.