What is the importance of a father in the life of a son?

 What is the importance of a father in the life of a son?

By Intimate viewpoint

A father is a role model for a son. Because a son always tries to do whatever his father does. In a family when a boy child is born and gradually grows up, he does a copy of his father. He tries to walk like his father, he wears his father's shirt and does act like his father. He tries to speak like his father. He picks up his father's bag and wristwatch and pretends like going to the office as same as his father does.

Although the parents both are important for a child especially a father who plays an important role in the life of a son, as a mother is important for a daughter.

How does a father important in the childhood of a son?

When a son is in his childhood, he waits for his father's return home from working place. He expects a packet of chocolate or a packet of chips in his father's hand and these few things bring a smile to his face after waiting all day long.

When there is a fair near a neighborhood, a son always wants to go with his father because he knows that his father only can buy the things and the toys that he wants.

The importance of a son in a father's life

This is a little difficult to mention the importance of a son in a father's life and there is no perfect word for describing such a relationship properly. Because a son is everything for him. A father sees his own childhood into his son and lives his own childhood again with his son so he feels delighted to buy the things and the toys for his son that he wants. Sometimes he feels joy also playing with his son in his free time. A father feels proud when he sees his son doing act like him. So a father always tries to be according to the wish of his son.

What is a father for a young son?

When a son grows up and becomes a teenager she searches for a friend inside his father. And when he finds a friend inside his father he does not need any other friend outside. He can share all his secrets with his father. And then after that, a very deep and tight relationship is made between them. They spend time together, they fight with each other like a friend, they share secrets with each other. Exactly the same way a father also finds a friend inside his son.

It is seen often after a certain period when children grow up they started hiding many things. they do not dare to share their secrets with their parents. This is because of the excessive strictness in the behavior of the parents, especially of fathers. 

The fathers always think that their strict behavior would make the children more disciplined and more well mannered. But this is absolutely wrong thinking. Because the excessive tightening makes things weaker and then breakable.

What is the result of the father's strictness?

When a child grows into a young one he finds a true friend everywhere. And if he gets his true friend inside his own father he never loses his track.

But when a father becomes more strict and tries to stop his every move he becomes a rebel and loses track. Then he started trusting the people outside instead of his own parents.

Therefore when the children grow up every parent need to become a friend of their children. Because that time they need a true friend instead of parents. 

And if the parents succeed to become a friend of their children they will never lose track.

A parent must be a parent when their children are in childhood. Because they must be stopped for every wrong deed by their parents. They must be forbidden for everything that seems wrong.

Therefore when the children grow up try to become their friends.