The parents need to learn first for teaching the children

The parents need to learn first for teaching the children

By Intimate viewpoint

We always try to make our children better than us. We always dream that our children would be well mannered and we do effort day and night for that. We always scold them for their bad habits

But how could it be possible? that the qualities not available in parents must be in their children?

Suppose that you want your children to wake up early in the morning but you sleep late. Do you think your children will be habituated to wake up early? No!

If we want a habit of getting up early in our children then we have to make a habit of waking up early ourselves.

Children observe parents

We have been reading from our childhood that the parents are the first teacher, and a family is the first school for every child.

Children always observe their parents and do copy them, in such cases, if the parents behave well then no need to teach their children good behavior separately because they adopt such qualities automatically from their parents.

Therefore it is said, that a parent needs to learn all the things first that they want to put in their children. In very few cases it is seen that the children become well mannered in spite of being the family and the parent bad.

Good family+ good parents=Best children

In most of the cases, it is seen that they cannot able to be good in spite of all effort of their parents and the big reason for that is the worse behavior of the other family members, as the behavior of the grandfather, the behavior of the grandmother or maybe the behavior of the uncle and aunty.

IN a joint family not all members are the same. Some of them are well cultured and some of them are not.

And it depends on children whose behavior do they like most and want to adopt what? We have noticed often when parents want to scold their children for any bad thing, the grandparents do interface against the parent which gives a bad impact on children. 

A nuclear family is the best for the children 

This statement is for those joint families, where most of the members are uncultured and uneducated. But if all the members of a family are educated and relate to good culture, then the matter is not worrying. Although the and care of grandparents improves the behavior of a child and the need for the improvement of the personality of a child, it becomes possible when the grandparents are well educated and well cultured.

The impact of the parent's behavior on children 

The behavior of parents plays the most important role in the development of a child's behavior. Often time it is seen the children follow the routine of their parents and try to do all the things that their parents do on regular basis, like waking up at the same time as their parents, taking bath before breakfast as their parents do, taking the meals at the time of their parents. Not only that many other good habits can be noticed in the children that are in their parents, like reading books, worshiping god, speaking politely, behaving well with others, etc. All parents want such qualities must be in their children's but they don't know that such qualities are not big things if they have such qualities in them.

Therefore, the statement is given-

"The parents need to learn first for teaching the children".