Who are the so-called loving and caring parents?

Who are the so-called loving and caring parents?

By Intimate Viewpoint

The parents are usually loving and caring, but here I am calling a few parents so-called loving and caring because there are few reasons behind it. I have seen many parents pretend of more loving and more caring parents but actually, such parents do not know about real love and care. Here I have mentioned those parents who think it is not important to scold their children for their faults. And they think miners fault over their children's every fault.

What is real love and care? 

The real love is that which leads us to the right path. And help us to select the right things. All parents love their children. It is not so that the parents do not love their children who always take out the faults from their deeds and who always scold their children for their every fault.

As being a parent, it is the most prominent duty of their's, to lead their children to the right path and to explain to them the right and the wrong.

But some of the parents have a few weaknesses and sometimes their so-called love becomes their weakness.

The helplessness of parents

We have noticed several times that few parents are also there who laugh at their children's wrong activity, instead of forbidding them. Such parents seem helpless before their false love. They scare of their children's cry and anger. Such weaknesses of parents push their children's future towards the darkness. They could not think that the few minutes of anger is not a big thing but if they will always be set free from after their every fault, definitely they will go on the wrong track. Children should be explained the right things from their childhood by their parents. But if the parents will be careless and they will conceal their children's wrong deeds by their false love, their future will be gone in the darkness.

The children are the clay of the potter

I think you have heard of potter's clay. Potter's clay is that in which a potter gives shape according to their wish, and the clay turns into a beautiful and attractive pot. Just like that, the children are like the potter's clay and the parents are like a potter. So they can give any moral shape to their children according to their wish, and the children will also be prepared according to the mind of their parents.

Children are new in the world in their childhood and they are unknown from everything, so they are always dependent on their parents to see the world and to know the world properly. Therefore, it is the biggest responsibility of the parents to explain the right things.

 The parents of the modern era

In the modern era, the parents are always excited to teach their children, new things, and also the things which are related to the new technology. This is not bad because these are the most important things to build their career. But here, the parents forget to give the most important knowledge, the knowledge of morality, and the knowledge of the discipline which is basic knowledge to build the personality of a child.

You have noticed often that we try to teach English to read and to write to our children as much as we can and also we try to teach the English language to speak. But ever we try to teach them moral things like worshipping God, joining hands before God, touching the legs of the elders.

We always try to teach them to greet in English but we never teach them Hanuman Chalisa or Gayatri Mantra, we never try to explain to them the meaning of such mantras. We insist on our children reading the textbook of their own classes. But we never say them to read Ramayana and Mahabharata, Which are the vast sources of moral knowledge.

Even though knowledge is important that we always try to give them. Because this will help them to achieve their goal. But we should not ignore that moral knowledge that is also as important as the other knowledge is.