The life and the circumstances

The life and the circumstances 

By Intimate Viewpoint

Our life is surrounded by a lot of circumstances. Sometimes the circumstances are favorable and sometimes it is unfavorable and unwanted.

We become happy when the favorable circumstances are around us and just opposite we feel when we face any unwanted circumstance. We always want to be near to the favorable circumstance because our life becomes easy in such conditions and we try to avoid unfavorable circumstances because it makes our life painful and sad. But it roams around our life in spite of our being chased away, and on the other hand, the favorable and good circumstance falls out of our grasp in spite of our trying to hold it tightly.

The good effect of bad circumstances

Although the bad circumstances bring a lot of sorrows and pain yet it teaches us many important lessons that we can't learn in the good circumstances. We gain more power during bad circumstances because we use more power to fight with it and we know that the more we use power, the more it increases. Thus we become able to increase our power in bad circumstances. In the same way, we become able to increase our tolerance power and the restraint power in a bad circumstance.

We become able to identify the real friends

The most prominent effect of bad circumstances is that it teaches us how to differentiate between real friends and so-called friends. 

When the good and favorable circumstances keep us surround each people seems our friend but when the bad circumstance replaces the good circumstance, all people whom we consider good friends go away but those people stay with us who are real friends. In this way, we become able to identify our real friends.

We become able to know the importance of many things

In our bad situations, we become able to understand the importance of many important things like time, money, savings, misusing, using, and many more words. Such words are unknown among us in our good time. We never know the proper utilization of time and also that the is most valuable in our life. We never know the use of money in an appropriate place. We never know also the saving is how much important for fighting bad situations.

When there is a good situation in our life, we never think about our future, while we use money or other things in the wrong way. We never think that the good time passes also and the bad time takes their place.

We always misuse our time and money and lament over it in our bad circumstances. 

We become active

When we are surrounded by bad circumstances, we become active to deal with them. We start to apply all our effort to rid of the bad circumstances. But when we are in good circumstances, we waste our time sleeping and having fun with friends. We enjoy ourselves with friends all day long and at night we enjoy parties. We never mind our wrong deeds.

But the bad circumstances teach us lessons and to rectify ourselves. It is the bad circumstances that give us the opportunity to improve ourselves.

Therefore I think the bad circumstances are like a good friend of ours and the good circumstances are like a so-called friend that strays us by washing our brains.