How to react if anyone avoids you ?

 How to react if anyone avoids you?

 By Intimate Viewpoint

All of us face this situation somehow and somewhere.

How do you feel if anyone avoids you?

Definitely, you feel embarrassed and sometimes you feel too offensive.

Isn't it?

And that's why sometimes we avoid doing an emergency work also if we had the doubt that may be we would have to face such type of circumstance. And then we try to ignore that work despite being important.

But if we learn to deal with such situations with stubbornness, the fear will remove from our inside and we will become very strong.

 

Why can't we bear such situations?

Ever we think? why can't we bear such situations? And why do we mind other's such nonsense activity?

That is because we have a false ego, which we called self-respect. And this becomes an obstacle in our achievement.

So, first of all, we have to learn to differentiate between self-respect and ego. Because ego becomes an obstacle but self-respect never. So, we should never let our ego make any obstacle in our path.

Why do people hurt anybody?

When we get hurt by anybody, there is a question comes to our mind.

Why do people hurt anybody by avoiding them? Why they do not understand, they themselves are also human, if they get hurt, others can get hurt also in the same way.

But sometimes people do such things knowingly. And there are many reasons behind it.

* Jealousy

The first reason that is often noticed, is jealousy when anybody is jealous of someone, he looks for the chance or moment for hurting that one. And for that, they keep looking for many ways, like avoiding, commenting, taunting, criticizing, and making fun of that one.

*Positivity

The second reason may be the positivity of a person. Sometimes, some people can't tolerate the positivity of a person. They feel uneasy by getting near such a positive person, then they start to avoid such persons and try to heart them in different ways. Sometimes the positivity of a person disturbs others, they feel jealous also, because the positivity creates a good image and an impressive appearance of the person.

So, here the positivity becomes a reason for what a person is being avoided.

How to deal with such conditions?

With confidence or with stubbornness

In such conditions, our confidence becomes an effective weapon to deal with them. And secondly, our stubbornness also becomes helpful in such situations.

When confidence appears on our faces, such negative people do not dare to create such situations. because our confidence makes their bad motives weak. And eventually, such people become a friend of yours or try to make distance from you.

In such cases, we should never be hyper or nervous rather sometimes we should be stubborn and face them confidently and by avoiding them. After that, you will see those people either have been joint or either went away from you.

With intelligence

Intelligence is the way by which we can face any difficulties. We should never take any kind of negative things seriously. In such cases, we should be bold and should not let it be an egoic matter. And try to avoid if anything we hear is offensive. And not let the people succeed in their motives, who are in front of us to offense us or to disturb us. Because their motive is only to disturb us mentally.

We always hear a thing that the negative things can be defeated by the positive things. But what if the negative things will be more powerful than the positive things? 

So, if we want to defeat such negative things we would have to be more powerful from the inside. And we should have to evoke our positive energy and would have to make them strong. And the intelligence, the confidence, the restraint power, etc. such positive qualities will be our most powerful weapon to defeat them.