Mother Vs Wife & Son

Mother  Vs  Wife & Son

By Intimate Viewpoint

The Behavior of a Son After Marriage

Even though, the title of this article is based on mother and wife, but inside it, I have written about the behavior of a son with his mother after marriage. 

My readers might disagree with me in few points of this article, but you can't completely deny it, because this is not a story, it is rather based on the result of several analyses.

My readers certainly won't deny, that after marriage, life and behavior both of a man get changed.

In the present era, a wife becomes the first priority for a man after marriage, although this is precise also to some extent when a woman gets to know this reality she makes it her strength, and as a result, she always tries to make separate her husband from his own family. And you know, this could happen only due to the weakness of his husband. 

The monopoly of a wife to her husband

A wife always forgets that a husband is a son first and after that, he becomes a husband but not only does a wife forgets this point but a husband also forgets this very easily. And he becomes weak and lets do his wife everything she wants. 

Why do men become weak and helpless after marriage while a woman never? She always tries to give the same importance to her maternal family even after marriage also, as she did before marriage. 

Here, a man is found guilty, and this would not be called compulsion, it is rather his carelessness. 

A wife's mother is most important

.Why does a mother of a wife becomes more important than a husband's mother?

. Why does a man become helpless and unable also to look after his own family? 

.Why does a man becomes unable to handle the situation properly, when any relative like mother, father, sister of his own comes to visit him.

. Why does a wife become the first priority while his own family could not be even the second one also? 

Not only that, a man can be found guilty more than this if anyone will be there to point out the faults properly.

In a family where a married couple and the parent of the husband's life, could be noticed that a wife's weight is always heavy.

Here, a mother could be seen scolded by her son and daughter-in-law for a miner reason whereas a wife never is scolded if she doe the same mistake.

The husband always could be seen scared to talk with love and affection with his own mother or sister because of his wife.

A husband has no right to bring any gift for his mother or sister in spite of being a job holder and having a good salary because his wife will get angry.

The point of view of a woman after marriage

After marriage few women are seen to be accepted her husband's house, property, money, the whole salary of her husband but when the point goes to his family members, she begins to refuse. She starts to create an unhealthy atmosphere in the house.

Marriage is a bond of copartnership 

The marriage is a bond of copartnership, and a husband and a wife should be partners in everything not only in property, house, and salary but also their own people.

They should love, respect, and take care of the parents of each other, they should welcome the relatives and friends of each other.

But in the present time, often it is noticed that the husbands are always ready to accept such types of situations but a wife rarely be ready to accept. 

In a family of the couple, a husband's mother rarely gets respect and love from them. 

Apart from this, many other such situations can be seen among them.

. A son can't dare to praise his mother's recipe, in front of his wife.

. A brother can't dare to embrace his sister in front of his wife, it becomes worse if the sister is living with them permanently.

. A son can't dare to support his mother, even though she is right in the disputes of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

. A son never dares to appreciate his sister or mother in front of his wife.

Don't know, why these happen only with a son while a daughter-in-law is always free to do everything, and she does not need to be scared of anybody. 

Do you know why do these unfair happen to them?

This happens due to the lack of will of a son. A son always tries to escape to take the responsibilities of their parents, and the family gets confined with his wife only.

 Although, a mother is always matchless. She never is compared to anyone. A daughter knows it very well but a son can't.

But today, a son made it possible to make a mother comparable, rather a wife becomes more important than a mother. 

That's why I chose the title 

Mother Vs Wife.