The social Judgement about a woman

 The social judgment about a woman

By Intimate Viewpoint

My reader' would surely have the question that, why did I choose this statement as the title of this post?

This is because I have observed several times that the viewpoint of a person easily gets change when a lady is noticed to speak in a loud voice. And any person makes a negative opinion about her without knowing the actual matter.

A lady in a soft and delicate manner

All men think that a lady is always looking good with a still and delicate appearance, and see no need to raise her voice, then no matter how serious the situation is.

A lady is always appreciated if she does her regular chores peacefully and without any objection. But a single objection makes spoil her all good deeds and turns her image into a negative image. 

People always accept a lady in a soft and delicate manner and expect from her not to make any objection or raising voice against any difficult situation. She always considers a machine. 

As a machine always does its work and never objects to anything, in the same way, a woman is considered good if she never says a single word against her pain.

A powerful lady from far 

Just as a musical instrument sounds good from a distant place, a man thinks also the same thing. A man thinks that a powerful woman looks good from far and makes feel proud but the woman should be from another house and not from his own house because if a woman of his own house would learn to raise her voice then no one will be there to serve and to obey and then, all men will come in danger and their existence also will go fade.

For this reason, a man never likes a woman his own house will become powerful. This orthodox thinking never lets a woman grow or stretch her arms and thus, a little commotion in water makes them disturbing, and then they try to stop the commotion by saying them badly, irritation, and mad, and also many more. 

The place of a woman in a family

Although, not all families like this variant nor all women are suffering from such type of condition. Where we see few families dominate the women, on another hand we see few families support the women of their house. 

But, here in this article, I am talking about the pathetic condition of women in families as well as in society. A woman never gets their deserved place in families in spite of sacrificing their whole life for families.

Even children also when grew upstart to scold their mother in little mistake, and they start to point out the mistakes of their mother and always try to make them feel to being outdated and unintelligent. The children often forgot their mother's deeds and sacrifice their own comfort, sacrifice the sleep of the night, and all the love, care, and affection. They forgot also the restlessness of their mother even after getting a small pain and injury of their children. A woman always thinks only about her children and her family.

But what does she get back after their all sacrifices? 'Nothing!'

A woman always feels happy by seeing her family happy and by giving happiness to her family. Even if a woman is a job holder, never think to take rest after returning from job and nor expect a cup of tea or a glass of cold water from their family members, instead of it she gets to indulge in preparing food and finishing the leftover work of her family. She never says about her pain. But if any day she tries to express her pain by shouting, no one tries to understand the reason for her irritation, rather give the judgment of being an irritating, indecent, and madwoman.

A lady is a servant of a family 

I know that the statement will be a little objectionable for few readers, but this is true, and men do not ready to accept it or feel hesitant to accept it because after all, this is a matter of their image.

Actually, a woman is considered as a servant, who gets no wages, but rather I would like to say that sometimes the condition of such women are worse than a servant because servants are free to leave their job anytime whereas, a wife or a mother has no such type of choice. Because, her motherhood and wifehood do not allow her to take such type of steps, no matter how right it is.

But, in spite of all allegations, I know also that, this is not the story of every house and every man because good things also exist in society and a good and positive mindset also flourishes in many families.

By Intimate Viewpoint