The women's life

 The life of a woman

  By Intimate viewpoint

       The life of a woman is such that, it can be written on it.

        And so, as being a woman, I can write very well on it with more clarity and with all experience, because only I can know a woman and as well as can understand the feelings, the way of thinking of a woman.

Although normally the women are known for their goodness and nobility, it needs to know that, every coin has two faces, the same is here. All women never can be good.

*The character of a woman

All human being expect only love, mercy, pity, and tenderness from women. 

A woman can be cruel, this sentence is just indigestible. A woman is always called the symbol of all the goodness of the world.

But in Ramayana, where the character of Sita impresses us, in the same place, the character of Surpanakha disappoints us also.

Here I mean to say that, a woman can be a creator as well as a destroyer also.

I am saying these lines because I have observed around me, that a woman is good with her own children but when they handle other children their motherhood transforms into a bad woman, why does this happens when they are examples of impartial love.

The line is very popular, "When the good things transform into a bad thing, it becomes worst".

So, when a woman becomes bad, her performance gets worst.

* The power of a woman :

  A woman consists of all kinds of power. But all women do not know this. And when some of them get to know it, then she started to misuse her power. Actually, the use of power depends upon the presence of wit/intelligence.

Empowerment works when one has proper intelligence.

In the Indian language, it is said that the wit of a woman exists in their knees.

Although, as being a woman this sentence is a little offensive for me, I agree.

So I think that women are empowered when they are endowed with proper wit.

* The women of the modern era :

 In the present era, the women think that this era is of their own. And all the things will be acceptable, whatever they will be doing. Today the women think also that, they become modern if they will put on a western dress, or jeans or shorts. But the fact is, in the past, she was a woman, and in the present, she is still a woman and in the future also she still will remain a woman.

The era never can be changed for women.

The women were insecure also in the past and same is in the present and also same will be in future.

So, if the women truly want to bring the changes, they need to be educated, they need to be intelligent, they need to change their typical mindset, and then they could be called modern.

If the women truly want to become an example of Shakti. Then, first of all, they need to change their way of thinking, not rather a way of clothing.

   *  The typical mindset of a woman :

  Although, at the present time most women are educated. But, only through the reading of books, infect they are still uneducated. Because education became a failure to change the mindset of such educated women.

Now, I gonna explain this line with few examples :

1) After getting educated as well, a girl or a woman still likes to depend on their father and after marriage on their husband for their needs.

This, I will say a typical mindset.

2)If any girl or any woman is trying to do something, the other women try to make an obstacle on their path, instead of helping them.

By doing this they want to make us know that: " We will do nothing and nor let you do anything.

This also, I will say is a typical mindset.

3)The two women rarely remains a good friend for longer, because their understanding ability gradually go fade with time, after few days or few months they do not like to watch the face of one another,  and this also, I think happens because of their typical mindset.

4)The two or more women become friends, not for any good purpose rather for gossiping. Their intentions are only for sharing their family secrets not for sharing their intelligence, in spite of being educated.

For those reasons, I say that it is very important to change the typical mindsets. Clothing and makeover are the smallest part of modernity.  The real modernity is that, in which modern thoughts exist.

So, all the women first of all need to change their way of thinking before changing their outfits.

The women need unity, more than the men.

They need the support of each other, and then, they will be called empowered.

         From my own point of view