How to keep Your Family Environment Calm and Happy ?

How To Keep Your Family Environment Calm and Happy?

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    For keeping the family environment calm and happy is necessary to find out the prominent reasons for tribulation inside a family. And I have analyzed

several times that the 'Expectation' comes out as a prominent reason for disputes in a family. Now I am going to demonstrate with a few examples.

Expectation, as a prominent reason for family disputes : 

Although, the viewpoint of different people is also different. But here, I have mentioned what, that is based on my personal experience. You can say that I am sharing my personal experience. So my experience says that the main reason, because of which the family tribulation arises, one is the prominent of them is expected.

Although, the human expects from their own people and this is human nature and so that, this prominent reason can't be removed and if people will learn to avoid expectation, definitely the family disputes will be decreased.

In this article, it mentioned that the expectation is the prominent reason for family tribulation and also has been described it in detail, but excepting  expectation, there are also many reasons we can see in a family which becomes a family dispute and we will get also that, all the reasons are interconnected with this

prominent reason  'expectation'.

Except for expectation, the crisis of money, mismatching of ideas among the family members, mainly amid couples, these also come in front as a reason of family tribulation.

Expectation transforms into a big problem 

Expectation, where building a deep relationship on one side, it also transforms into a big problem on another side. So, just think deeply for a while! the expectation how becomes a problem in your family. For example, All the family members depend on each other as well as expect from each other, somehow and somewhere, which we call  'attachment '. But how and when this so-called attachment becomes a reason for dissatisfaction we never know. Ex

Satisfaction convert into dissatisfaction

Not only that, how does the satisfaction gradually convert into dissatisfaction, most of the time we become unable to understand that, and thus, it starts to form an unhealthy atmosphere around us and this unhealthy atmosphere begins to arise tribulation in the family. A married couple has more expectations from each other, more than other members. A married couple depends on each other for everything. So sometimes if they are not able to fulfill their expectation due to any reason, disputes take place among them.

Here, there will be a disclaimer of accepting that expectation arise the disputes only. Yes, I also know that, because the expectation plays a role to attach the family members also.

But, an expectation becomes an advantage, when it could be fulfilled, otherwise, mostly it becomes a disadvantage and arises disputes. 

Less expectation + Adjustment = Healthy Atmosphere

Yes, this is the formula of a healthy atmosphere and also happiness. But, the question arises, who will be ready to sacrifice their expectation?

It is a moral theme that, 'where there is satisfaction, there is peace and happiness. But the word 'Sacrifice' is not as simple to perform as it sounds. It is so painful to sacrifice one's expectations. Because somehow we live for our dream, we live for our wish, and also we live for our expectation, and in such conditions, no one can sacrifice.

 

But, if you become brave and get succeed to do it, you will see the result within a week. As a friend, my advice will be, that if anyone is facing the same problem in their family, then leave your expectation, for a few days, and play your duty as much as you can, don't make any complaint about anything. And just increase your tolerance capability. After some time you will notice, that those things that you were doing by force, now gradually it becomes your habit and power also.

Make 'God' your best friend 

Sometimes when we become fail to make things right, we leave them for god to make them right, so If you believe in God, then make God your best friend and leave everything on him, because he is the most powerful and he has the ability to make all the things right and the biggest thing is, he will never cheat you. By doing this you will get an unexpected change within you.

Maybe, some of you will consider it, ridiculous and will not agree with me, because it is too emotional and not fit for the present practical era. But I am saying this with all my personal experience. 

So, lastly, I will say that sometimes emotional things become more powerful than practical things. So, never lose faith in the emotions.

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