The Keys Of Happiness

The Keys of Happiness

 By Intimate Viewpoint

All human beings quest for one thing only 

Do you know what is that?

That is Happiness!

Yes! we all human beings chase happiness in our entire life, but nowhere we can find it out. We start one journey then we finish it, then again begin another journey and again we finish it out as a form of an obstacle, this sequence continues in our whole life. And the endless obstacle keeps chasing our entire life. Do ever we succeed to find out happiness?

Actually! It is can't be found anywhere, rather it is inside us. We never try to find it out inside ourselves. In fact, there are some keys to happiness around us. If we will be succeed to find out the keys, surely we will become happy. Thus, the keys are -

1)satisfaction

                                                                    

2)Less expectation

                                                                                          3)Determination

                                                                                                                4) Adjustment

The first one is satisfied. It is the most important key to becoming happy. Suppose that, someone has very little money and is unable to buy all comfort nevertheless, that one is happy because the having of thinking that what is have is sufficient for surviving. So, this type of thought works extensively. No one could be happy without satisfaction in spite of having a lot of comforts, assets, and luxury life.  Satisfaction teaches us, how should we adjust with less. Many of us are there who are not able to buy all comfort and to afford all costly things, but yet we learn to live with the few things that we have, not only that, we live happily with the less comfortable. In this way, it is clear that to be happy satisfaction is a big necessity.

The second one is less expected. If we introspect ourselves, we will find that most part of our sorrow comes from expectations. Somehow and somewhere we depend upon someone to fulfill our needs and in this way we become weak, the expectation does not let us move on. We always think that our own are present around us to help us in each and every difficulty, then whether it will be big or small. But when we confront the reality, we become sad and upset, because each and every people have the same condition and all of them face the same circumstances, then who will help whom?

So, to be happy it is important that we should believe in ourselves, and also we should not expect that someone will come to help in our difficult situation.

Moreover, our expectation to get more than our ability is also a big reason for our less happiness. Often we want the things which are generally not in our access and we become sad and sometimes it also create an unsatisfactory circumstance in our family and our happiness goes away. So we should learn to live with the things that we have. 

The third is determination, it is also a big factor of happiness. Suppose that, you are doing something full of willingness and confidence, in meantime, someone comes and begins to demoralize you. What happens after that? You become sad. Therefore, determination is the most important thing.

We should never expect appreciation from anyone for our good deeds and should keep going on it. 

Determination is important everywhere

because it teaches us to be firm, so that no one could manipulate us and we become confused in our life. Sometimes we become unhappy due to our confusion about our life and we become fail to decide the right thing about our life.

The fourth key is an adjustment, actually, the main thing is, that happiness is never found. We have to find it out amid the small moments. And here, the adjustment performs a big role to play this part successfully. If we learn adjustment properly, we will become happy.

We all do often time a common mistake. We always try to get all the things instantly that we want, then whether it will be approachable or not, and this is the prominent reason for our sadness. If we learn to live with whatever we have, we will never be sad. It is not so that, we should not dream of the best life. Actually, dream bears innovative situations, therefore dreaming is very important. We should keep continue our effort for new achievements but with fewer expectations. We should never give the burden of our dream upon another, rather we should try to fulfill it by ourselves. We should learn to adjust everywhere because it provide us happiness and also it makes our life easy.  In this way, the life of each person will become easy and happy as well.

So, these were the keys to happiness from my point of view, what about you?