The elements of domestic violence

What Is The Most Common Domestic Violence?

By Intimate Viewpoint
                                                           

Why does domestic violence arise?

There are many reasons for which domestic violence arises. It is seen mostly among couples whether new or old.

The reasons can be classified in the following points ;

a) Lacking money

b) Lacking mutual understanding 

c) Excessive working load

d) lacking interaction discussion

e) lacking education

We need to know extensively about all these points, so let's go to the first one.

a) lacking money- This element is prominent among all the elements. Mostly the domestic disputes occur for this reason. And this can be found amid Indian middle-class families.

It is said that money is not everything but I say money is not everything but many things. 

It is found that in some families where there is a lot of money but even happiness is nowhere, whereas some families also can be found where no money at all even to buy a crumb of food.

 In India, most middle-class families get domestic violence only because of lacking money. Money helps to approach happiness. It supports human beings to buy their needs and to fulfill their desire.

Suppose that, you have no money at all or very little money you have, and you have to sacrifice your desire on every step, in that case how one can get happiness and peaceful life. If one is ready for the sacrifice of his own desire, his own dream, but the person would never accept that his children would face the same problem. And the person will strive day-night for money but he will be unable to earn sufficient money for his family. Just think, then how would the family of the person can be happy and eventually domestic violence will arise.

b) Lacking mutual understanding- This type of element can be noticed in every family whether it will be from the upper class or be middle class or be from the lower class. 

In the present era, the word understanding has disappeared. Nowhere it can be found. Present couples have their own ego. Man and woman both have their own boastful nature because in the present time mostly they are self depended and as a result, indifferent behavior takes place in their life. So the words understanding, tolerance, love, affection, adjustment, etc. which are precious and essential for making human life beautiful and accommodating. 

c) Excessive working load -For running a family smoothly it's very important to interact with the family members and also it's needed to sort out any problem, where the excessive working load becomes an obstacle. an earning man or a woman deprived of this kind of convenience because of working load .consequently the environment of the family gets messy.

d) Lacking interaction - This point is attached to the above-mentioned point. As already said that the mutual interaction is essential for running a family smoothly. But some unwanted elements like working load, ego, anger, etc. make an obstacle to making such things successful.

e)Lacking education -This point can't be said as an effective element because we see such type of violence among the educated family as well. But nevertheless, we should include this point amid the elements of domestic violence.

All of us know about the reasons for domestic disputes or violence whatever but are unable to stop them even inside our own home.

                                                    why?